Are You An Emotional Tampon?
“Are you the guy that she thinks is an emotional tampon? Are you the guy that is always a friend but never the lover? It’s your emotions that create this situation with women. You are her tampon”.
Meet David Wygant, “the world’s leading dating coach”. He’s the guy who coined the essential dating phrase “I hope you saved some turkey for me”, which I posted yesterday. He is not just a dating coach. He is also a scientist, check out his calculations below, from an article entitled “How Women Lose Respect For Men Every Time”
I have found that 7 out of 10 times you use a routine and meet drunk girls in bar the odds of getting a date is 30%.
So you will need to get 10 phone numbers for 3 dates. Do you want to work such low odds and think about how long it takes you to get 10 phone numbers in a hot bar.
It’s proven by science. And there’s more.
One of my favorite openers in a bar is “the text opener.” I will have my friend text me this into my phone: “Hmmm . . . Last night was really interesting. What are you doing later? :)”: Now that you have this in your phone, you need a back story. The back story is that you went out with this woman the night before, had a glass of wine, and said goodnight without any kiss. So you approach the group of three women, and you ask them “Can I have your opinion on something? Before I show you what I need your opinion on, I need to tell you the back story.” Then you explain to them about the date the night before. And then . . . the fun begins.
A friend of mine used this approach, and all the women in the group he approached wanted him after that. One walked by and let her business card fall. Another one met him at the bathroom.
Who are these people? What world do they live in? And haven’t they seen “Anchorman”, or any of the numerous other comedy films from recent years that make a mockery of this sort of 80s bullshit? The above video is like a religious cult for disillusioned alpha males. It is funny though.
June 9th, 2008 at 3:46 am
As funny as it sounds, there is a “Community” trying to learn to pickup women. They call themselves Pickup Artists (PUAs)
The sad part is a lot of them are total geeks and nerds with poor social skills who are trying to learn to be ladies’ men. If you meet them, they are totally socially uncalibrated.
However, within that Community, there are also normal guys who are just shy or who’ve lacked the social experience to carry themselves confidently in social settings.
Since I’ve helped David Wygant before, I can tell you that he tries to get guys to be real and confident by learning to socialize everywhere. Now that’s not too bad of an endeavor, is it?